Morning. You're not apart on price. You're apart on what happens next, and neither of you can prove it today.
Negotiation.
The Contingent Agreement
Take the deal you're most stuck on this week and work out what the distance is actually made of: are you apart on what the thing is worth today, or on two sincere and incompatible forecasts of what happens after signing — and if it's the second, what exactly is the money you concede before Friday buying?
Two negotiators can agree on every fact in the room and still sit a long way apart, because they are forecasting different futures. David Lax and James Sebenius, in The Manager as Negotiator (1986), made the case that a difference in what two sides expect to happen is not an obstacle to a deal so much as something a deal can be built on. Deepak Malhotra and Max Bazerman set out the working instrument in Negotiation Genius (2007): where two sides disagree about what will happen, you write terms that pay out differently depending on which of them turns out to be right. What makes it hold is that neither side has to concede the forecast. You think the launch does 50,000 units and they think 20,000, so you write terms that pay you handsomely at 50,000 and cost them little at 20,000 — and both of you sign believing you got the better end, because inside your own forecast, you did. What you do concede is certainty, which is why this structure suits some parties and ruins others. The disagreement stops being something to win and becomes something to price.
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