Good morning. A decision nobody heard you make is still just a preference.
Decisions.
Committing Publicly
Which decision have you already made and never said out loud to anyone who could hold you to it — the resignation letter drafted and not sent, the pricing note sitting in your drafts folder, the restructure your partner has heard in full and nobody at work has heard at all? Name the person who would have to hear it for it to become real, and then notice how quickly you found a reason not to tell them.
For three years Robert Cialdini trained undercover inside sales rooms, fundraising drives and advertising agencies, learning the compliance trade from the people who practise it for a living. Now Regents' Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Marketing at Arizona State University, he published what he found in 1984 as Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion. Of the six principles he documented, commitment and consistency is the one operators most reliably use on customers and most reliably fail to use on themselves. Once a person takes a position — especially one that is active, effortful, freely chosen and witnessed — a steady pressure builds to behave consistently with it, and that pressure does work no quantity of good intention has ever done. The trap is the decision that never leaves your head. A choice made privately stays permanently renegotiable, so Wednesday's fatigue can quietly reverse Monday's judgement without anyone, including you, registering that a reversal took place. You will conclude you are bad at execution. You are not. You never actually finished deciding.
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